Some women get so caught up in planning the perfect wedding, that they turn into a monster. Bridezilla. You know, the bride who behaves like an evil queen, snapping her whip at anyone and everyone. Especially if something is not perfect. Here is a guide to understanding why women become Bridezillas, and how you can help her snap out of it.

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Why is there so much pressure to create The Perfect Wedding?
There are very few times in a woman’s life where she has a chance to create a fantasy as she does around her wedding. It’s a day where there’s a potential for an immense amount of beauty and tears. Couples feel inspired to create this day that expresses their love and expresses their deepest commitment to each other. Where people get out of whack is when they’re acting on a very deep, usually unconscious motivation that starts from the time they’re little girls — they try to create a “fairy tale wedding.” The reality is there’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Images that we see in magazines and movies are not real and they cost thousands of dollars to create.

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