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May 5, 2007 @ 10:44 am

The Most Important Thing About Being a Man is Not Being a Woman

Mark Dery of the LA Times thinks that USA suffers from a deadly fear of wussiness, where the strongest attack you can make on an opponant is to question his manliness. Fueled by homophobia and “femophobia”, politicians ”confuses diplomacy with weakness and arrogant rigidity with strength.” That can’t be good.

Doesn’t all this machismo and locker-room homophobia protest a little too much? What can we say about a country so anxiously hypermasculine that it produces Godmen, a muscular-Christianity movement that seeks to lure Real Men back to church with services that feature guys bending metal wrenches with their bare hands and leaders exulting, “Thank you, Lord, for our testosterone!”

The trouble with manhood, American-style, is that it’s maintained by frantically repressing every man’s feminine side and demonizing the feminine and the gay wherever we see them. In his book, “The Wimp Factor: Gender Gaps, Holy Wars, and the Politics of Anxious Masculinity,” clinical psychologist Stephen Ducat calls this state of mind “femiphobia” — a pathological masculinity founded on the subconscious belief that “the most important thing about being a man is not being a woman.”

Source: Wimps, wussies and W.

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  1. Posted by Rob Kay

    September 18, 2007 @ 3:57 pm

    Hey, a man ought to be a man! I beleive that father’s are leaving the home, & women are raising the boy’s! We do have a lot wussiness going around. When these guys go out into the world that canno’t even survive! For the rest of their life, it take for their mother’s to complete them and take care of them! Most of these wussies end up becoming alcoholics or getting on drugs. Because it takes a man to raise a man. Fathers pls go back home and raise these boys! It doesn’t make no sense for these young men to be as sensitive as they are! When they get out in the world they canno’t handle the reality of what it means for a boss to holla at them, or, what it means to get up and go to work in the morning! The reality is not their. So these wussies end up attracting women low self esteem, and they end up taking care of these wussies. This is something that is going to have to stop! If anyone would like to comment! Email me at Hookup0805@yahoo.com my name is Rob

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