Japanese woman are getting manly habits; they are starting to pay for sex. I’m sure this trend will spread to USA and Europe in time, so it’s time we start asking ourselvse: What can I do to keep my woman from buying services from a call-guy? The answer is right in front of us.


You see, the japanese women don’t rent a hunk just to get off.

“Just seeing the faces of people who notice you walking around with a gorgeous guy on your arms is enough. My husband treats me like little more than a maid, so the attention I get when being with a cute young guy makes up for that,” another housewife, this one a 40-something woman, says. “I might get the occasional sensual massage, but we never have sex.” (No sex please at this rent-a-gigolo service - Mainichi Daily News)

Wow! These short quotes gives us three major clues for free:

1. The faces of people noticing her walking around with a stud
2. Not being treated as a maid (as her husband do)
3. Getting sensual massage

Sure, it’s also a thrill to pay for sex and to date strangers in secret, but I believe that these three points strike right to the core. If you can score with her on each field, she won’t need the paid lover (or a free one). So how do you do it?

1. Being noticed with a good looking guy
All women want this, but there’s one thing that we guys often forget: Good looking doesn’t necessary mean looking like a model. The clue is being noticed with a guy that other women want. In this perspective there is three ways for a guy to be good looking: Being handsome, being well dressed (and groomed) or being recognized as someone successful. If you score poorly on success and face, go for exercise, grooming and clothing. Satisfaction guaranteed.

2. Not being treated like a maid
This is a point that’s actually easy to avoid because you don’t have to get a high score to succeede. You don’t have to be romantic all the time or carry her around like a princess. All she asks is that you treat her like your girlfirend and not like your maid or mother. Don’t assume that she should cook and clean for you. And when she does it, notice and appreciate her effort.

3. Getting sensual massage
What she really want is intimacy and attention. When guys give massage it’s usually foreplay and we want her to get in the mood really fast. How about giving her a back rub or sensual massage and not having sex once in a while. Not every day. Maybe two or three times a month. More if you like it too. When you give her attention without expecting something back, she will be happier and love you more.