By talking online we are protected of falling in love too deeply because the real chemistry can happen only when we are meeting someone face to face, when we can see his/her smile, when we can touch his/her skin, when we can feel his/her smell. In these conditions we are not missing the “decision” part, that moment when we are following our ration not our instincts. I am not saying that we should not follow our intuition or instincts but we never forget completely about our ration. Ration is what makes a difference between human beings and animals.

Hmmm… Doesn’t this take all the fun out of dating? If you love women, how can you opt out the way she smells, her flirting eyes and the sensation of touching her for the first time? I didn’t pick my wife rationally. It was pure emotions and attraction. It has to be. There’s just too many factors to consider if you should try to rationally find your perfect partner.

Go with your gut feeling. If your love and attraction stays after months of dating, you are on to something good. Ask her to marry you when it feels right and give yourselves a good, long engagement. If you still want her, then you know.