October 28, 2006 @ 1:47 am
Why Marriage is worth Fighing For - Ten Good Reasons
Did you know that married families have more sex, a higher income and generally are more happy? Doesn’t seem so, huh? Well, that’s what they say and here are a collection of ten facts that shows why your marriage (and marriage as an institution) is worth fighting for.
1. Married couples have higher incomes.
2. People who are married are more than twice as likely to be happy.
3. Married men and women work harder and save more money.
4. Wed Couples have sex more often and are more satisfied with their sex life.
5. Married men are more often responsible dads.
6. Children are less likely to have developmental problems in married families.
7. Children are less likely to repeat a grade when their parents stay together
8. Children in divorced families have more often behavior problems
9. Fewer married mothers fall victim to domestic violence.
10. Children with married parents are less likely to be expelled from school.
Over 80% of the problems involving crime,poverty,drug abuse teen pregnancy, physical and mental health problems can be tracked down to one major issue; the breakdown of the family structure. Well what is the bottomline? Get married and stay committed, for life.
Source: What’s so great about marriage? by Thando Sibanda.
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Posted by dumpyourwifenow.com
January 4, 2007 @ 12:22 am
The following is what lies ahead for you in marriage. So think carefully before you pop the question.
Year one: Sex, sex, sex. All you could want. On the floor, in the woods, the car, the beach. Every time youre alone, youre banging like rabbits. Nothing is off limits. Nowhere either one of you wont lick, tickle or tease. Each time you look at her naked body, you are filled with gratitude that God has given you this woman.
Year two: It slows down, but you try to keep it hot just out of fear. You dont want to become one of those couples. But now theres no more spontaneous blowjobs. Things are more routine, but thats OK because youre still getting it regular and youre happy.
Years 3-5: Along comes the house and kids. Through it all, you find less and less time or reason to have sex. You go from 7 or more orgasms a week down to probably once a month. You get a bloated beer belly and your love handles turn into big bulges. She gets flabby with baby weight that just wont go away. The second kid is even worse. She refuses to get stitched up after the second kid and so shes now so loose you cant even come inside her. When you do have sex, its like fucking a bowl of pudding.
Years 5-7: You decide to get back in shape, to try to revive your sex life. You get trimmed down at the gym, almost to where you were before marriage. She gives it a half-hearted effort, but cant make much progress. She refuses to wear any lingerie you buy her, instead coming to bed in a T-shirt (if youre lucky) or a torn up set of PJs. And you now have to beg and schedule sex, which is cold and automatic. You now are masturbating regularly. In the shower, in the bathroom at work, anywhere, anytime you have a private moment. But the effect is minimal and you are constantly horny. For the first time, you will contemplate divorce. Youll visit web sites about it and perhaps skim a book in the bookstore about divorce.
Years 7-9: You find yourself staring in amazement at this woman and trying to remember when she was hot. Want a preview? Picture your girlfriend, now thicken up her arms by a third. Picture her ass all flattened and her legs thicker and more muscular. When you do convince her to make love, she usually quickly gets on her knees for you to enter her from behind and asks you not to fuckup her cold cream while youre doing her. Shes dry as a bone and the scent of unwashed ass wafts up as youre trying to bang her. She is hoping for another baby, but it seems unlikely. Your stomach churns at just the thought. By now youve had an affair or two. Maybe a crazy chick at the office or a couple hookers now and then, but the stress of it is too much. You are in disbelief that you are actually now masturbating in bed beside her as she snores.
Year 9: Its over. You occasionally score some outside poontang, but its expensive. Your wife now openly scorns any advances you make. If you suggest she get in shape, she labels you a woman-hater. Real men like women with curves, not sticks. Curves, sure, you think, but not roll after roll of blubber. She has stopped shaving, so that if you try to go down on her the hair is everywhere, matted and full of snarls. You hope to God shes banging someone on the side, but you know its unlikely. You try to titty fuck her, but she doesnt like that. Theres now no way to have an orgasm while youre actually touching her.
Year 10: You cant sleep through the night. Even masturbating doesnt help. You surf the Web or drink into the wee hours, praying for deaths sweet release to come and take you or her. Youve talked with a lawyer, but after he lays out the reality for you, you know that cant afford divorce unless youre prepared to live in your parents basement while all your income goes toward maintaining your wife and kids. Plus, you love the kids. You cant bear the thought of splitting up their family. Your future stretches before you like a desert, baking and sucking the life out of anything that tries to cross it.
Posted by Thomas Brakar
January 4, 2007 @ 3:58 am
Whew! This must be the longest comment EVER, and still it’s fun reading. Good job.
I don’t think I fully agree with you, though. I mean, if this is your marriage then I totally agree; dump your wife now!
But I kinda got the feeling of looking into a parallel universe. A place where women are dogs and men are little girls that cry when they don’t get candy.
It’s nothing like the real world, where women are human and men are… well… human.
You see, a lot of guys don’t keep a wife just for sex. Sex is important, but if that’s all you want you’ll find that it’s a lot cheaper just buying it from a stranger.
I want more. And I know you want more too.
Just remember what you write in your blog Dump Your Wife NOW!: “We are alpha males, who refuse to be ordered around by their women in exchange for ‘nookie’.”
Do you know what an alpha male is? I do. It’s the leader of the flock. It’s the one that every one looks at to see when it’s time to rest and when it’s time to hunt. He doesn’t hunt alone or with other alpha males. He leads the family, feeds and protect them.
I think that’s a good description for a family man.
Posted by dumpyourwifenow.com
January 4, 2007 @ 10:46 am
I hear you bro. I meant to clarify. We really don’t support getting married to the American Woman. There are many deserving overseas women who would make fine wives. The American Woman has severe problems. That coupled with a judicial System that need major repair.
Please read the following: Why Marriage Has Become a Raw Deal for Men
http://www.dont-marry.com/
This writing seeks to educate men about the realities of what he may be getting himself into when he marries. An informed decision is less likely to be one that is later regretted. The intent is not to dissuade men from marrying, but to encourage them in communicating frankly their concerns and expectations of marriage with their potential spouses. The aim of this writing is to also enlighten women with some of the reasons why increasing numbers of successful eligible unmarried men, who otherwise prefer monogamous long-term relationships, are turning their backs on marriage.
I invite you to join our brothers who will never marry the American Woman (also the UK, and Aussie woman too) and become enlightened.
http://dontgetmarried.proboards75.com/index.cgi
Peace and walk with Power
Chad
Posted by Lee
February 3, 2007 @ 11:48 am
Thomas,
These reasons have been put forth for many years. Here is a point by point rebuttal
1. Married couples have higher incomes.
Yes. However correlation does not equal causality. It could be that only those who have high incomes will marry. Women only chose high earning men, or men who will earn high incomes in the future. It is more likely that high incomes cause men to be more likely to marry, not that getting marred guarantees a man will earn more money.
2. People who are married are more than twice as likely to be happy.
The number of unhappy marriages I read of in columns, the internet, and in my own life are legion. It seems clear many people are not happy within their marriage, for many reasons.
3. Married men and Women work harder and save more money.
How is this a benefit? This also may shorten lifespans, and increase stress. Men who are married have to provide for the wife and kids and mortgage and all those attendant bills. Many men are simply no longer interested in working hard just for its own sake, or for the benefit of ’society’. The stress is just not worth it, the shortened lifespan is not worth it.
4. Wed Couples have Sex more often and are more satisfied with their Sex life.
The evidence I read directly contradicts this.
5. Married men are more often responsible dads.
‘Often’ does not mean ‘all or most of the time’. This is a nearly meaningless statement.
Married men will also be more ‘responsible dads’ because when a woman divorces or takes the kids and files for child support, in 40% of the cases she will estrange him from his children out of spite or revenge. Of course, this makes it impossible for him to be a ‘responsible dad’. Again, correlation, not causality. Those divorced fathers cannot be ‘responsible dads’ due to the Divorce and Family Laws.
6. Children are less likely to have developmental problems in married families.
The cause of families without a married couple at the head is a direct result of government policy, divorce law, and the fact that women file for divorce in 70% - 93% of the cases. Women want to be empowered and rear a child by themselves. Women want to divorce their husbands. Women want to be single mothers without consulting the potential father. The developmental problems children from unmarried families face is the result of the actions of women, not men.
The stereotype of the man who knocks up a woman and runs away is nearly a total myth. Yes, it does happen. But no where near as often as we have been led to believe. It is more like the woman will have the child against his will and insist on rearing it on her terms alone.
7. Children are less likely to repeat a grade when their parents stay together
Women file 70% - 93% of all divorces. Men are not abandoning their families in large numbers; women are tearing families apart because the laws and culture makes it profitable for them to do so.
8. Children in divorced families have more often behavior problems
Women file 70% - 93% of all divorces. Men are not abandoning their families in large numbers; women are tearing families apart because the laws and culture makes it profitable for them to do so.
9. Fewer married mothers fall victim to domestic violence.
Women file 70% - 93% of all divorces. Men are not abandoning their families in large numbers; women are tearing families apart because the laws and culture makes it profitable for them to do so.
The people who abuse non-married mothers are often her subsequent boyfriends, not her husband or the father of her child. This is not the fathers fault, it is hers.
10. Children with married parents are less likely to be expelled from school.
Women file 70% - 93% of all divorces. Men are not abandoning their families in large numbers; women are tearing families apart because the laws and culture makes it profitable for them to do so.
If a woman kicks the father out of the child’s life and reduces his participation to one day a week or fortnight, then of course those children will have problems.
Again, this is due to divorce law, family law, government policy and the incentives that make it profitable for women to divorce her husband.