Talking to your woman during sex can be like walking through a minefield. The right words can be a leap forward but, uh oh, one bad word can be a turn off bomb. Don’t EVER call her ’slut’ unless you’re absolute certain that she wants to hear it. Here’s the top ten list of things to say that will get you going.

1. “It’s okay for us to go slow”

2. “This heart-shaped freckle on your right inner thigh is so beautiful”

3. “You”

4. “You kiss great for a virgin, Britney”

5. “I’m going to take these off”

6. “You make me think dirty thoughts”

7. “I want to make you feel good”

8. “Next time, I’m going to take you on the hobbyhorse”

9. “You amaze me”

10. “Let me get back to you on that”

List stolen from Men’s Health. Read the full article ‘Talk to Her!’ for a detailed explanation of the list.