“Connecting through talking activates the pleasure centers in a girl’s brain. We’re not talking about a small amount of pleasure. This is huge. It’s a major dopamine and oxytocin rush, which is the biggest, fattest neurological reward you can get outside of an orgasm.”

Wow, this explains a lot! The quote is from the book ?The Female Brain?, written by neuropsychiatrist Louann Brizendine. I?m amazed. She actually says that talking gives women extreme pleasure that can be compared to an orgasm. No wonder why they complain about us not talking to them. She wants the verbal orgasm!

We guys have a lot to learn. I mean, we knew that women are not like us when it comes to memory (two of my friends actually refers to their women as their memory) and emotions.

“Women have an eight-lane superhighway for processing emotion, while men have a small country road.” [...] “Men have O’Hare Airport as a hub for processing thoughts about sex, where women have the airfield nearby, which lands small and private planes.”

This is old news. The real news is the verbal orgasm. This is gold! With this knowledge, we guys can stop thinking about endless talks as work. Think of it as giving her an erotic massage, but instead of using her hands on your body, you massage her brain by talking to her. Just remember that it?s not really your voice that does the massaging, it?s the conversation ? the talking.

She should know what she?s talking about. Brizendine founded and runs the Women?s and Teen Girls? Mood and Hormone Clinic. Besides, she claims the book is based on more than a thousand scientific studies.

Source: ?Women?s brains are different? in SFGate.com